"They partly yearned for a return to the time before education assumed their children's primary loyalty."
This sentence really stuck out to me while I was reading this story because I have always been a strong advocate of parental support in their children’s education. I think it is a very important aspect in a child/teenager’s future success. If a student is not motivated by their parents then they won’t have much of a reason to try in school except for personal satisfaction. I can see where his parents are coming from, in that they don't want to see their family's entire culture forgotten, but I think it is selfish for them to even have the thought of their sons not pursuing their educational dreams just for that reason cross their mind. The fact that they wish to hold back their sons from learning and living their own lives solely for their own personal satisfaction doesn’t seem like something that parents should do. It must be difficult for Rodriguez and his siblings to have the motivation to continue their educational studies when he knows that it is disappointing his parents. If all parents had this outlook on life then we would never further technology and the quality of life in our country. My parents, along with many others, are constantly encouraging me to further my education and find out who I am for myself. I think it is very important to have parents or a close adult figure supporting you throughout your educational journey.
I agree with everything you said 100%. I hate the concept of people bringing down their children in any sort of way, because of how the parents feel. Whether that be in regards to school, or sports, parents should never even have to think twice about wanting their kid to succeed. They should want the betterment of their child and they should want them to achieve the things they could not, not be jealous of their success. It's not right that the child then in turn has to feel bad that he/she wants to do well in life. Having aspirations is a beautiful thing, no parent should ever take that from their child.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with the fact that parental support of their child's education is extremely important. Like you said, without the encouragement from a parent, a child doesn't know why they have to go to school. The importance of education in today's society is a perfectly acceptable reason that parents should be very supportive in their child's education and I honestly feel bad for Rodriguez because, like you, my parents have also been very supportive of me all the way through my education.
ReplyDeleteI agree with what you said about parental support being important and influential to a child's education. Motivation can go a long way in helping one succeed in not only education, but in life. Parents should support their child's education and encourage him or her to find a passion for something and follow their dreams. They should be proud of their child's achievements and help them set goals to improve themselves and lead them to be the best that they can be, not hold them back. I'm lucky to have parents who have supported me throughout my educational path.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you on the fact that parents should be involved in their children’s education. I think it is a vital part of encouragement every student needs to succeed in school. Although many only need self assurance with their grades, it is nice to have other people helping you and pushing you to do and try your best. Family will always be there and having their support in all things helps. Success is measured by the people you know. I think in picking a quote, it was good you chose a quote you can relate to because you can then further your knowledge through other people’s ideas/successes/failures; not only with this author but in everyday situations.
ReplyDeleteI agree 100% that not being involved in your child's education is wrong. It is absolutely necessary for a parent to be involved in order for a child to have the best chance of success. Where parents are involved its helps their children get more motivated and focused. I honestly don't think you deserve to be a parent if you do not care about getting involved in your child's education to be honest.
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